WHY DO THE FEELINGS RITUAL?
During February 2012, there is a special promotion for the Young Living Feelings Kit. This is truly a fantastic giveaway, and I strongly suggest that if you really want to experience a great transformation in your life that you take advantage of this amazing offer. At the very least, the Feelings Kit will offer you a new foundation for venturing into new directions in your life with greater freedom and ease.
I expect you are asking yourself, “How could he say that? What basis does he have for making these statements?”
Here are three testimonials about what using the Feelings Kit has done for three different women. In one case, the process is still unfolding, as the lady in question spoke to me on the tenth day of her Ritual.
There is quite a bit here for you to read, but for those of you who are focused on making a difference with your lives, I am pretty certain that you will create the time to check it out.
What is truly phenomenal about doing this Ritual is the impact that it has on the lives of those close to us and with whom we work. Their responses to us change: it seems that when you participate in the Feelings Ritual it has an impact on the quantum field that surrounds you and your concerns, bringing a profound alignment and congruence to your energy.
I guess you could say you knocked on the door of the quantum field for blessings and a better life. The quantum field hears you, and things start to align for you. When you read the reports below, you will observe this is the common thread that is present throughout.
CASE STUDY # 1
T. P. Pistoia, Italy
NOTE FROM REX: When you read her story, do remember that T.P. was the only one who was doing the Feelings Kit ritual in her family.
So many changes happened for me AND my relationship with other family members while I was doing the Feelings Ritual!
I was in communication with family members who I had not seen in over 20 years, and I also began communicating with my mother again after a long time. We became very close during this time. She had had issues about feeling a lack of respect from our family.
Now she told me “I don’t depend on their opinion anymore. Their opinions always have been corrupted.”
Also, during the time I was doing the Feelings Ritual, I often had chance meetings with other relatives, specifically the generation that is 25-35 years old. These are my nieces and nephews.
I started remembering when they were babies! Two of them (the men) have had serious problems with drugs. I spoke with all of them about their common grandfather and grandmother. In general, these young people have a clear head about the generation problems!
They knew about my attempts to rebuild the family tree. All family members are interested in having old pictures and information about all the family members.
Certain problems that I was facing during this time began to improve by themselves, and also my brother’s health and sense of responsibility about his own condition also began to improve.
In addition, other things were happening with other family members, where their situation began to improve. Normally, as these people are not part of my household, I would not have heard about these things, but in this case I did.
About my mother
She had a strong stroke in 2009, 23th December. Nevertheless, after a very difficult period, she regained the use of her right arm and leg. On March 2010 she fell down from the bed, and got a problem with her back.
On March 2011 she had a vertigo attack in the early morning and fell down again. She began to be depressed, without hope for the future and full of fear because she felt herself unable to control her body.
You advised me to use Trauma Life and Peace & Calming essential oil blends. They worked well! My mother is quite good now.
She is under medical control but she often spends time alone without any problems. Her mood is positive.
About my relatives
Many changes. Someone, after a long illness, is dead. Many things have become clear and many masks are falling down.
About my brother
You remember that my brother Riccardo had problems with some job colleagues. You advised me to put over our dad’s picture a bottle of Inner Child essential oil blend. We did so, and the situation improved for my brother.
At the moment the situation is quite calm. Sometime Riccardo is in “his own world” but he is more grounded and balanced.
I can honestly say that doing the Feelings Ritual gave me many, many benefits, and as I have detailed above, I feel that it changed the whole energy dynamic of my entire family, including those who live far away.”
CASE STUDY # 2
T.S. Helsinki, Finland
“When I started the Feelings ritual in June, I was a bit confused in the beginning because of some differences between the instructions that you gave and the one’s that were in the package. I remember I asked you about this later.”
NOTE FROM REX: With T.S., I recommended that she use the Feelings Ritual oils using instructions taken from a seminar with Gary Young in Vienna in September 2008. These “Vienna” instructions are different
from the instructions that come with the Feelings Ritual Kit, and I prefer them. The other two testimonials presented here used the “Vienna” instructions at all times.
“The first time I used the oils, the effects were immediate and very strong, but at that time they felt very uncomfortable and quite scary actually! It felt as if all the past traumas, unpleasant feelings and experiences
would have been trying to shoot out but were then literally pulled back by the strings of attachment. This was a very real sensation and experience.
It created a very unpleasant sensation of disharmony, uncontrollable tingling, or actually worse than just a tingling, almost a shaking of energies shooting to all different directions, trying to escape but then pulled back
with the choke chain, then continuously trying to escape again and again, but again and again with no luck and then finally giving up, exhausted. I was also shivering of cold even if I was under blankets and duvets in bed.
It took a couple of hours before I could sleep.”
NOTE FROM REX: One needs to know the context of what was happening for T.S. in this period. Here it is:
“Hmm… At the time when I began the ritual I was stressed because I was busy at work and at the same time living alone in the house in the countryside, taking care of everything alone, travelling far for work everyday (2.5 hours daily) and taking care of renovating the house alone. There was a very challenging person at work causing difficulties for me as well, and my husband was so busy with his work abroad that many days we only had a chance to have a quick phone call of about 5 minutes. And of course we didn’t see each other for months. It felt like I was very alone with everything and it felt like it was too much for me to handle alone. When I started the ritual I had actually refused to speak to my husband at all for a couple of days to avoid the disappointment of him not having the time to speak to me, and the calls usually ending up in fighting because of his huge stress and need for understanding, when I could only think about my own unmet needs. I was seriously thinking through what kind of a relationship and life I wanted to have, and did not want to speak to him before I felt that my thoughts were a bit more clear about that.”
NOTE FROM REX: The lesson from this is that if your life is truly stressed out, then performing the Feelings Ritual could push you further into stress responses, but things will start moving in a very dramatic way towards a healing of your situation.
“After this scary experience I decided to try following the instructions on the package, to see if this would create a milder effect. It did. After some days the effects of that milder routine started feeling too weak, which I determined by the fact that I did not feel very strong and stable mentally (could also have been related to the monthly cycle). Then I changed back for two weeks to your version. I also adjusted the amount of drops to amounts that felt more suitable to me.
The first week I continued having big trouble in falling asleep, and then I thought it might be better not to apply the oils right before going to sleep but a bit earlier. It seemed to help most of the time. The sleeping problems might, of course, have also been caused by other stressful events in my life during that time.
What then happened to my feelings: Wow! On the 2nd day, after only doing the ritual twice, I suddenly noticed that when I was thinking about certain persons that I thought I disliked, I didn’t react with any angry thoughts. Until then, my head always immediately became filled with very angry and hateful thoughts when I thought about them. Now, there was a clear difference. It felt like I could look at the thoughts and see those persons from a neutral space or angle, with calmness and in a much more constructive way. And suddenly, it also became a bit more difficult to justify my resentment towards these people.
This lasted, and has in fact not stopped since (I mean concerning those people. I can’t promise that I have not been angry at anyone since starting the Ritual). In fact, I started spending time with those people who used to make me so angry: actively seeking them out, initiating the meetings myself, welcoming them into my life. Initially, that might have been with the intention of testing this situation, to see if it would hold out also in the real world, not just in my mind games. But since it worked so well, I noticed that I was doing it more and more. And enjoying this new aspect and extension of my life! Enjoying not having to hide, avoid and exclude because of anger.
On the 7th day of doing the Ritual, I started having deep insights and spontaneous new analysis about things that I have already over-analyzed so much during the years. And it was more like “being given” understanding, instead of forcefully trying to make up artificial explanations myself, that I then would have had to go through again and again to try and make out some sense of them when they didn’t really make sense.
I didn’t expect the oils to create such real sensations on a bodily level and the effects to go so deep inside. I guess I thought they would just “fix” things conveniently on outer levels, or the surface, or a mental thought level. But I see now, looking back to that internal shaking experience afterwards, that old feelings and that kind of stuff are much more profoundly and deeply rooted on the inside, and physically in the body. They are not just something you can wipe off with a wind screen wiper or a duster, no matter how many years you leave the wipers on for…
By the way, since then, a lot has happened and I have gotten a lot done, and my life has changed a great deal. And I am very happy with the way it is now.”
CASE STUDY # 3
Mrs C.L., Trinidad
“I have been doing the daily Feelings Kit Ritual for the last 10 days, I have 20 more to go.
On the second day of the ritual, my eldest daughter phoned me from America and chatted for more than an hour. There had been a gap in our communication for many months with little or no contact. I was very surprised when she phoned and just openly shared about her life. At the end there was a clear deep bonding that happened between us.
My second daughter has recently completed her University studies, and had a lot of applications pending for various research and work opportunities. This was the case for some months, and some of them were “dream come true” types of positions. About the fifth day of my ritual, she phoned me and said she had appointments for all of her “dream come true” positions, and that interview dates were also given for her to meet the research teams and for her to be assessed for the different positions.
Personally, my sense of confidence in myself has grown in these 10 days, and I feel very strong and present. I also observe that with any business situation in which I am involved, things flow my way. In fact my business in these 10 days has had an exponential growth, and I realize that I will need to hire a new person to deal with the extra business that is developing.
THE FEELINGS RITUAL
Based primarily on notes taken at Gary Young’s talk September 19, 2008, at the first Young Living European Convention, Vienna, Austria
It has been said that when there is a conflict between reason and feeling, human beings will always side with feeling.
According to Gary Young, “99% of life’s decisions are made from feelings.”
Therefore, if you want your life to be guided by good decisions that lead to health, happiness, and fulfillment, you need to be aware of and in control of your present feelings and to learn how to release the repressed emotions of the past.
Most of our feelings from day to day are not responses to current happenings. They originate from the programming in cellular memory that was imprinted by the emotional experiences of our past that we were unable to understand, process and resolve at the time.
These forgotten traumatic experiences function as live programming in our bodies, affecting every aspect of our lives and particularly in the area of how we make decisions.
When our thoughts are limited by fears, lack of self-worth, and not feeling good enough for more or better, we make decisions that limit our success.
Limited thinking leads to limited decisions that lead to a limited life far short of the God-given potential we actually possess.
By focusing on repairing your feelings, you can fix most aspects of your life -physical, mental, and spiritual. Essential oils are perfect vehicles to help you in this task, because their molecules pass directly to the emotional brain and can bring us into contact with the issues we have long forgotten and enable us to deal with them and resolve them once and for all. When we clear our emotional baggage, we clear the way to manifest our true and highest potential.
According to Gary Young, “Thought equals frequency. Essential oils absorb our thoughts. They are registered in the oils as intent. Intent is directed energy.
When you apply an intent-energized oil on your feet, it can saturate all of your cells within 60 seconds, stimulating creative thinking and pushing negative energy out of the cells, thus increasing the frequencies of the cells throughout the body. In that uplifted state you can create a new desire to be better tomorrow. You have no limitations but those you choose to accept.”
Gary says, “Use the Feelings Kit. Apply feeling oils before work and every night before bed. Do this for 30 days and you will change your life.”
The Feelings Kit, which was out of stock for some time, is available again in a modified version. It contains six oil blends: Valor, Harmony, Forgiveness, Release, Present Time, and Inner Child.
Here is how Gary instructed us to use them at the Vienna Convention:
Put Valor oil on the soles of both feet at night-time along with Highest Potential. These blends are effective in erasing limited thinking. Valor balances and equalizes the body’s energies, thereby increasing oxygen intake to the pineal gland, the seat of our higher intelligence and intuitive faculties. You will wake up in the morning more self-assured and more ready to start the day.
Massage one drop of Harmony oil on each of the energy center points of your body. There are seven of these along the spine: Coccyx, Sacrum, Lumbar, Dorsal (heart), Cervical (where neck meets shoulders), and Medulla (hollow place at center base of skull), and Pineal (center of forehead). You can also massage Harmony on the crown of the head. Harmony balances the parasympathetic and sympathetic nervous systems which, in turn, gives us progressive creativity and feelings of confidence. “The biggest sin is not having confidence in yourself,” says Gary. “He who lacks confidence lacks life.”
Apply Forgiveness oil around the navel with the right hand, going clockwise several times and think of situations where you need to forgive yourself or others. We beat up on ourselves, but everyone makes mistakes. Yet we struggle to forgive our own mistakes and those of others. Unforgiveness is one of the most common roots of physical, mental, and spiritual disease. Lack of forgiveness does not make the other person sick: it makes us sick. Forgiveness is for our own benefit. It is accomplished in five steps. (1) Forgive yourself for allowing the other person to affect your health and happiness. (2) Forgive the other person for any harm he or she may have caused you. (This need not be done in the presence of the person being forgiven, but is an inner adjustment on your part.) (3) Give the other person permission to forgive you. (4) See the good in the situation. (5) Be thankful for the experience and the lesson it taught you. Inhale and apply Forgiveness oil while going through these steps, and repeat as often as necessary to clear the feelings of unforgiveness.
Negative energy goes into the blood, and then into the liver for cleansing, and here the toxins can remain trapped. As a result, the liver often becomes a storage place for anger, resentment, bitterness, hatred, jealousy, envy, addictions and a host of destructive feelings. Apply a few drops of Release oil on your tongue to release the poison of stored negative emotions from the liver. Rub Release over the liver area. Drink lots of pure water and do a liver cleanse.
When we live in the past or dwell on the future, we are not being productive in the present. Energize three drops of Present Time oil by making clockwise circles on the oil in the palm of your hand, and then apply it to the thymus reflex area (centrally in the upper chest area, 3 fingers’ width below the suprasternal notch). Besides keeping you focused on today’s tasks, this can also help you financially, by increasing your abundance consciousness in the present moment.
“When you are a child all things are possible. There are no limitations,” says Gary Young. “When you find your inner child, you have found your true self. The child in you is your creativity.” Apply one drop of Inner Child oil onto the tip of your thumb and then place your thumb onto the roof of your mouth. This energetically opens the cranial sutures and stimulates the pineal, pituitary, and other areas of the emotional brain that occupy the space just above the roof of your mouth. Walking backwards as you do this while you have your thumb in your mouth may look stupid, but it changes the rotation in the pelvis, elongating the spine, and decompressing the discs in your back. As a result, you can clear the nerve channels for energy to flow smoothly throughout your brain and body.
In conclusion, Gary said, “Use the Feelings Kit morning and night for 30 days. You will feel enthusiastic. Your life will be full of excitement. And people will be drawn to you like a magnet.”